Her dad is home, and a nurse and social worker came to assess the situation. They made several recommendations, including that he has to use a walker, since he is not steady or strong enough. That required clearing out some space around the house, which took some doing (and some convincing, since her parents don't think they need help). We will see whether her dad will actually follow their suggestions.
I reserved flights and the hotel for a trip to Provo in August for the annual FairMormon conference. I have been attending since 2006, and was joined over the years by Dee, my mom, my sisters Marilyn and Karen (and her husband Dave), plus some other friends. We enjoy the conference and the mini family reunion. The Marriott website apparently wasn't working, but it turns out that it just refuses to give me access because I am in Europe, without even giving a nice explanatory message. So I logged into my laptop in Carlsbad and made the reservations. In other tech news, I had to reset my network drive in Carlsbad, which had detected a disk error. Fortunately it seems to have been transient: everything works after running the diagnostics. Now Rich can continue to scan pieces of mail for us.
I left early for the Institute. On the way, I got a call from some YSA girls from the Netherlands, in town for the Open House. They asked about the Institute, and I invited them to come to class that evening. Unfortunately, they wouldn't make it. The Ganziani taught some "refresher" missionary lessons to a Nigerian member from our ward in the early afternoon. Sorella Canfield brought by three chocolate cakes for dessert for Seminary and Institute. She had volunteered to do it since Dee was gone, and she is an awesome cook! I had to put a sign next to them on the counter to prevent grazing. ๐
"Do not eat!!" |
In trouble |
Saved |
Post bingo photo |
Hanging and eating cake |
Sorella Canfield made plenty! |
David Archuleta in our library |
David went into the classroom with the piano for a while to prepare his devotional. Soon Jomar showed up. He has a great tenor voice and loves to do karaoke, but is rather timid about it. I went in and asked David if he would be willing to make Jomar's day by singing with him, and he was very happy to oblige. I introduced the two, and Jomar started almost hyperventilating. David asked, "Jomar, shall we sing together?" It took some convincing for Jomar, but everyone encouraged him, so the two of them did a song together ("Perfect"), with the entire small group looking on. David was so cool, singing harmony with Jomar a few times. At the end, David gave kudos to Jomar, and the group exploded with applause and shouting! It was really a special moment. You can see some brief video clips here, here and here.
David sang the first verse, Jomar still not believing what was happening |
Jomar does his verse, with David harmonizing lightly |
The two hug after their awesome performance |
Meanwhile, there was a big piece of missionary news: the First Presidency announced that young missionaries can now call or video home every week on P-day with their families (not with friends). This replaces the long-standing policy of doing that only twice a year, on Christmas and Mothers Day. The reaction was interesting. Several of them did not like it at all, saying how distracting it would be for them. I can see their point, as a mission is all about focus on the work, which they love. President Pickerd sent out a followup email with details and asking them to be wise in not going overboard. It will be interesting to see how it works out.
After our announcement, lots of kids started arriving. We had a number of visitors from out of town (Milano, Genova, etc) for class -- they really lucked out! A number of kids on WhatsApp expressed grief at not being able to come. I would later send out a message, only slightly tongue-in-cheek, saying "this is why you need to come to Institute class, on time, every week!"๐๐ It would be our biggest day at the Institute in a while, with over 40 kids signing in.
We started on time for once, because David had to leave by 8pm. I made some brief announcements, followed by the opening prayer, and then I turned the time over to David. The kids had carried the piano into the big room for him to use. Alessandra did a great job of translating: for him when I was talking, and for the group when he was talking.
David gave a very spiritual and touching devotional, telling his story, how his life changed dramatically at age 17 after coming in second on American Idol. His career was really taking off, but the spirit kept telling him that he should serve a mission. His advisors and manager told him that he was crazy, and even many of his family members felt that it would ruin his career. Finally he decided to go with the spirit and put in his mission papers. He sang a song about that experience, "I'm Ready", in which he says to God that he is willing to put everything on the line to follow Him. You can read the lyrics here, and here is a YouTube version. He ended up serving two years in Chile, so he can understand a little Italian. He went on to talk about difficult times and decisions in his life, stopping to sing a related song a few times. The entire audience was paying rapt attention. We didn't record it because he said that he would need permission from his agent, but it is an evening we will never forget.
He finished just before 8pm. After the closing prayer, everyone wanted a photo with David, and he was very gracious about it and seemed to genuinely enjoy being with the kids. He stayed longer than he should have, with kids surrounding him. Then Ugo drove him to his hotel, with Ugo's sons Joshua and David going along, which certainly made their evening!
The group photo |
Krista, David, Riccardo |
Maria Jose, David, Grace |
Ugo's dinner |
Claudia reuniting with dear friends |
Marlene, Sheyla, and Maria Jose served the pulled pork |
Claudia's UK roommate on the left |
We miss Claudia! |
Natalia, Francesco, me |
Dinner and fun in the library |
Group karaoke |